A Unit on Friendship

A U Fdh W by Jf Bh A 1996 Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 1

Idu Th u f h u du ud vy f fdh u ug hghquy hd u. Bf umm d uggd v hv b vdd f h my u. A U Fdh ud u d d v dg, wg, kg, g, h, mh d ud. Th v hv b d d gzd h bu h fwg fdh u: Mkg Fd d Fdy Bhv Dffu Fdh Mxd-Sx Fdh Ig Fdh I d C Cuu Fdh Imgy Fd L f Fd Eh u xd hugh u. Hwv, h v h h m u vb yu by, m dd u ugg hv b vdd h yu dfy h b u. Fuhm, h dd b ud xd mdfy h v d hg f h m u b m yu ud d. Yu my wh f g 38 wh yu w fd L f Chd Lu h d h fdh hm. Th u-bd v ud h u d hv -gd m qum. Thf, yu dd f h v b md gv d f yu ud d dd m m h v ufuy. Th u b ud y bu h b dgd h h u d-. If, f xm, yu hg h u gd h ud d yu w fu fdy bhv, h g fd d mgy fd b y md. Th gm w f g d f h h d fxby. Abu h Lu S Ahugh m f h u u bk d h mjy f h v dgd f u wh K-3 ud, my f h v b mdfd f u wh d ud. I m, h dd u ugg ud v d m dffu bk. Nv d bk bv ud dg by b d ud ud dug dy dg gm ud um h u h wy. I u yu dd hw h u hud b d: u ud, y, gu,, d fh. Fy, h d Gg Sd d Wg U yu w fd v v h b ud du d ud A U Fdh ufuy. Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 2

Gg Sd... Budg Fdh Vbuy hfu kd Fd... gd wm F... hy uddg gd vd Fdh L m h yu! Sud Lk I h! I v yu! hdg hd kg Lk Lk vy yg hy y C wb f fdh wd! P h wd fdh h d mk u g f h m wb, uh : ud k, k k, f, fd, mm, fd w hv, d fh. Sud bu wd h hy y wh h f fdh. A wd d m wd h d bg m y f h g h h wd h hg d wh fdh. (F xm, ud my bu fgh h fdh wd d hugh w d hk f fghg fdy hg d, fghg d dgg f f fdh.) Th fdh wb b d bu bd d uy mdfd hughu h u. Eug ud u my f h wd b h w wg. Th u h wb dd y m ud my hv bu fdh dfy wh ud kg x d kwdg. T xd h wbbg vy ud Wb Fd by g fd m h f wb. Th, hy wb h, x, v, d fh. Fdh Dy Eug ud fdh wd fdh dy. Yug ud h fv wd d h dw u md hm wh h w wd y. Eug d hd w d mm h u h fdh wd. Sud h wd fm h u hy d, h w x d fm h wbbg vy. Wh wg, ug hd f h dy f h g f fdh wd. S Fd Ag h ud fd. Th fd y wd d wh h wg by mg f dvy h mbx. Pvd mbx f h ud d m d f h ymu. A ud b gd dv h h mbx. Aw m h dy f ud w h d hk f m. Cd gg f ud w bu (w mhg bu yu dy mm yu f yu hv hm h dg mhg fdy). A h d f h u hv h fd v hmv h. N: If hd k w h h h ud d wh h h hugh h b f. Th S Fd Mg gm b dud by dg A S Fd by Y. Tuu. Th u h mbx d wh dvdu ud. Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 3

Gg Sd... P P/ Ky P S u / ky (-m) gm by g h m h wh d dg h m ( h uy, y h). Shdu m d m d d. Wh h u v, ug ud k h. If ud hv ky fm h d u, u h h bu m dg k, gghy d h uu f dff fm ud h wd. Adv Cum -- Dy Wg Avy Fd h w wh yu dy ( wky) fdh d bm. Gv h ud m d h bm d w y h ymu wh h h bm. Sud b d bd h g f vy d. Th -gg vy w ug ud hk bu vy f fdh bm d hy w bg d b v wh hy fd hmv fdy bd. Pb bm my ud: juy, fghg, hg, g m, vy, bg d by, dg wh h f fd, d hw mk w fd. Cd g fdh d y h h jy d w f fdh d ug ud w ymu. Bu Bd -- Fdy Cg Iu ud mk fdh bu bd by g mu g f fdh wd, u,, m, dd d jk. Sud my w bg u fm hm (y dfd), u u, wd d h fm mgz, w d f fd d fdy bhv. Wh h bu bd g gw hughu h u. Aw m f ud du h bu bd h d f h u f wh hy hv d. Fdh Gm (Gug Av) Hk U: Sud mv fy ud. A h ud f dub wh, ud mu hk u wh h hm. Th bm fd d hy y mv f hy u b hkd u. A h ud f g wh, ud bk d mv h w g u hy h h dub wh ug hm hk u g. If ud hkd u dy wh hy h dub wh, h h hk u wh h. Eug h ud b v wh hkg u (hdg hd, ggy bk, bhd h h hg). If h uv umb f hd, h dub wh hud u hd hk u gu umb h f u. Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 4

Gg Sd... Pu I Tgh: S h w v gu. O m d hv h ud fm gu w g d, f h bu hmv (bhdy,, f h h). C h d, mx hm u d hd hm u h h gu ( ud). Aw h ud mg f 3-5 mu wh hy fd h g w f h d h hy hdg. O h w h b fud, h ud d dy f gu wk. Fdh K: Sud d hdg hd. O ud wk h h h d ( hdg hd) d v, g ud, h hd f h hd h h d f h. Sud k u gg hmv u u m mvm b. Sud u hd hd d y ug hmv. T ug h gu, vy mu. Wh dg h vy f h f m, hd hud m gu f 3-5 bf h fdh k. Rdg C Rf h L f Chd Lu vdd g 38 f u ugg ud m-dg. Iud bk h vy dffuy d g h ud xd vy f u. A, ug hd d h m d w hm h h dg m. Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 5

Mkg Fd - Fdy Bhv Lu S: Wy d Hugh by Ahy Bw Summy Wy d bu h h fd. H bum Hugh J dy d h h h fdh b wdfu v f h w f hm qu dff. Bw v humu u f d jy. Suggd Av: V Dgm Lg f Od Pmmg Ev Hum -- Hw h Auh Mk U Lugh V Dgm -- Sm d Dff Rd d du h y Wy d Hugh. A, V dgm h h m Wy d Hugh h d h qu h mk hm uqu. Th dgm my k mhg k h: Wy y m d d fd d hfu g ughd d m d d kd h z d f Bu N fdy d f d g Hugh d f d d f Bu N u fd O h h ud h V dgm dfy h m d dff f Hugh d Wy, m f h ud V dgm h m d dff h hy h wh fd. Cd g ud u ug du, h h g hm wk ddy. A, ug ud du v hy ud d gh bd h fm h V dgm. Th vy w h ud g kw h b d g wy ff h y. Lg f Od 1 Ex yu ud h hy mu vy fuy h y h hy w b b m h vy h w fw. R-d Wy d Hugh yu ud d hv h ud dfy h d h h v k h y. I Wy d Hugh h qu f v k mhg k h: 1. Wy y bu h h fd. 2. Wy hm. 3. Wy bum Hugh J d hy bm fd. 4. Hugh Wy fm Bu N. 5. Wy d Hugh g h z gh. 6. Wy d Hugh g h by gh. 7. Hugh d d h d. Wy mv h d f Hugh. 1 Th vy h b dd fm Lg f Squ Lgug A Av f Chd, 3d d., by D N. Pg 84. Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 6

Mkg Fd - Fdy Bhv 8. Hugh d Wy mk m g d hy d! O h ud hv dfd h qu f v, du h qu f. Cu h qu d mx h d f h. Rd h mxd u v f h y v. Mx h d v m dm h h d f v h u f h y. Fy, hv h ud g h h d. Th d h vy gh h ud hv h w f mu. If h vy d dvduy, ud d h mxd u v f h y gu f. Eh hd b f gug h bk h d. A, gu f ud ud b gd g u f f h v h qu ( gu v). Th, h u ud b d w d ud ud -g h m y. Pmmg Ev O h ud hv bhd h qu f v m f ud u h v h w fm. P h d f v f d hv h ud bk ff. Hv h ud mm h v ( y h f Wy, h h y Hugh) h y. T xd h vy, hv ud du h md fg f h y. Th, vu f mu d dfy whh f mu f b wh h y d md. Hv ud d h mmg h mu h w Mkg Fd d. Hum -- Hw h Auh Mk U Lugh Ahy Bw h ud m hum jyb y. Hv ud dfy h wy whh Bw mk Wy d Hugh humu. Thy mu vd g m u h hy hv dfd. Th fwg xm f b ud : Th uh h md f h h Hugh J. A f I hugh h m w ju Hugh bu wh d ud Hugh J ud k Hug A. Hugh y hug h mk h m fuy. Sud du h fu mm h y by dwg u d bg by wg x f h dwg. A, ug ud du hum h w wg by yg wh wd d ud k Bw d (. Hugh J). Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 7

Mkg Fd - Fdy Bhv Lu S: Fk By by Pu Bug Summy Fk d h fd hv fgh bu Fk y g h h wh d d h v yhg h h h hv y. Fy, Fk fd dd u u wh h ufdy bhv d Fk fd y. Evuy Fk d h fd mk u d Fk mm h vy hy. Suggd Av Mdg Chz (Fk) Wg Fk -- Gvg Adv R Py Fdh R Mdg Chz 2 A uh bvb d v h by gvg d fm bu h h h hw d h h h bd gd. Ifm bu h mmud h d hugh v x h uh d bu h h Exm: Fk h u ud z z d bu bu. H ud u by w d h h. H hd f fd d b fd, md B. by dbg f h h Exm: Fk w h h w g d d u... Sw w! h wd h fh. by g d kw h hugh f h m h d h h Exm: H md B d h Fd. Ad h hd f m hk. H wud g B d gz. hugh dgu hd bw h Exm: Th f, d B. Sh h bv xm f hz wh yu ud h hm udd hw uh dv h. Th, md h f fg ug h xm d bw. Eug ud j wh yu hy h h f fg hz. O ud f mfb mkg f h w, hm h w k vu bk wh g hz h h h fdh hm. Exm O: 1. Bg dg Fk By, g h d f h f g. 2. Ak h qu, Wh d w kw bu Fk? 3. Aw: W kw h Fk m. W kw h Fk u. H f gd bu hmf. 4. Evd: I h x y h Fk u d h h d z z d bu bu. Th x y h Fk h f fd. 5. Rg: I hk h Fk mu b f h h f fd bu fd wh m wh m. If Fk h b fd h mu b y gd 2 Th ud h mdg f hz hv b k fm Th Im f Lu-Bd Rdg by D N. Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 8

Mkg Fd - Fdy Bhv fd bu I wud b b fd wh m wh dd kw hw h y wh m y. I kw h Fk hk h fgh wh B wfu, h mu k fghg wh h fd. H k b hy d fdy wh. Exm Tw: 1. Rd h x h g f x. 2. Ak, Wh d I kw bu Fk? 3. Aw: Fk vy f u d h d k. H d m wh h h fd hk. Fk m b uhy. H. 4. Evd: I h x y h wh Fk w g h h hgd h u h wud b h w. B dd hk h w f d Fk ju gd hm. Fk wy g vy wh d, Yu wy k h gm. Fk g h fd whv hy y hm hy d w d mhg. 5. Rg: I f f Fk hg h u f h h w f h m. B v y, Th f. Fk wy. H h h wh d f h m. Wh my fd by I g y md hm. Exm Th: 1. Rd h x w g f x. 2. Ak, Wh hv I d bu Fk? 3. Aw: I hk h Fk kw h h w wg h d uh h fd ud. 4. Evd: H w md B f yg h dd w y wh hm bu Fk d h fh wh wg wh h k hm. Fk ju y h, Th' y wh. Fk g h wh uh. 5. Rg: Smm wh I kw I hv d mhg wg I d h wh uh my. I mgh v mk mhg u h I d k bd bu I d w my g m wh I hv d wg. I dy kw h I w wg bu I d w dm y bu I d k b wg. Th wh Fk d. Exm Fu: 1. Rd h x h g f x. 2. Ak, H Fk m ugh hm yhg? 3. Aw: Y, Fk h h g y bd wh h h fd y wh bu h h d why h fd d w y wh hm. 4. Evd: I y h x h Fk y by hmf f hu d h h u f hg d h w fd h fd. Wh h fd h fd h bg hm ud gh wy. 5. Rg: If Fk hd d h h fd dd k hm wh h w by h h wud hv m bk d d bg hm ud. I y hg wh my fd hk h I m m by d Fk wud f h kw h why hy dd w y wh hm. Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 9

Mkg Fd - Fdy Bhv Exm Fv: 1. Rd h x h g f x. 2. Ak, Hw d w kw h Fk h d wh h h d wg? 3. Aw: Fk h fh hg h fd d h h v h dd d h fd fgh bu hy mk u. Fk hk bu wh h hd wh hm d B d h dd h w wg d h hud g gz. Fk hw muh h m B d h h fd. 4. Evd: Fk hd B hu gz d h dm h h fgh w h fu. 5. Rg: Fk wud g gz B u h zd h hd d mhg wg, d h udd h h fgh wud hv hd f h hd b by. A yu md h bv xm h ud hy hud bg vdg h w w, vd d g f h w. Sud fh Fk By ug f hz. Th, h du h fdy d ufdy bhv Fk dyd hughu h y. A, k ud dd whh hy wud k b Fk fd. Hv hm vd g u f h w. I m, hugh Fk by, d k hm bu h dm wh h h d mhg wg d h y d v B. Bu h h w dvd, d bh h gd d h bd bu Fk. Wg Fk -- Gvg Adv Bg dg Fk By hugh h, Ad I d w y wh yu, h! A h dg d hv h ud w f dv Fk h hm h fdh wh B. Hv h ud h h w wh. O, hv du d Fk fm h h. O h d, u dg h bk hugh h, Fk ud h bk d w hm. Du hw h fgh bw B d Fk bg d hv h ud b h dv hy hv dy w Fk. Du hw hg wud hv b dff f B d Fk f Fk hd fwd m f h ud dv. Fh dg h y. Du m wh ud hv d y d md hg b d m wh yg y w ugh fx h. R Py I, hv ud y h h y wh Fk bg by d h bg fgh wh B. Hv h ud dff wy fx h fdh mv h f. Sud fm h y f h d h du m f h d h ud hv m u wh f gg g b wh fd. A, du hw h ud f wh hy w. Hw dd B f bu Fk? Hw dd Fk f wh h fd wud d h d? Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 10

Mkg Fd - Fdy Bhv Fdh R Thugh xmg h h f Fk d hugh du d y bu gg g wh fd, ud w hv bm m w f fdy bhv. C Fdh ug fdh d wd f h gd. Pvd ud wh xm f h wg b u fm. R f Fdh Yu d: 1 u Tm 2 f Lg 2 u P 6 u Lv 1 1/4 u Uddg h f Nd I g bw mx h Tm d P gh u bdd vy. Add u f h Uddg, w E, d h x u f Lv. Mx h mg qu u f Uddg dd d k h f Nd v h mxu. Pu wg h d bk fuy f 20 y 200 F. Yd ugh fd fm! Add Lu Sugg Kg f h Pygud by Phy Ryd Ny (buyg) Th Gvg T by Sh Sv (fh) Wfd Gd MDd Pdg by Mm Fx (hg) Am & B by Wm Sg (hg) Cw By T Yhm (bg u, g ) Sm, Bg & Mh by Ev N (yg) Th Ufdy Bk by Ch Zw Th Hg Bk by Ch Zw Th Guhy Ldy Bug by E C Th By wh A Pbm by J F (bg ymh) A Td f Tudy by Ru E. Ek (h v-mkg fd) Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 11

Dffu Fdh Lu S: B Fd by Sv Kgg Summy Wh Khy d Lu d v h umm, Khy bm ju f Lu w fd. Khy f y d h hk h Lu d m h. Khy md d h bg hk f wy h fx Lu f bg h b fd ym. Th g hg u d Khy z h uky hv fd k Lu. Suggd Av Sy Puzz Pmmg Em Sg Ch O Ju R Sy Puzz O dub dbd, ud dw u f f h fv v fm B Fd d h hy w Sh hd h db wh hy hv dw. Nx, h md u d u u uzz. Eug hd vy h h d z f h uzz, vdg gh. Th uzz mxd u d h ud d h uzz wh h ud. Sud mb h uzz. O d Khy w u. h ud hv hd h h u fw uzz gh, du h v hy ddd d d fy h uzz bgg, mdd udg v. O h uzz hv b fd, du h u. Hv m hd kd mdd v du? Why mgh h b? Du wh h v f dvm gh. y uy Sg Wd G ud kg bu h wd h u. Bw f wd fm B Fd. I ( dvduy) ud u u h wd d hm g uh fdy wd, fg, h f fd, d fh. Sud mk u h w g g hy u why hy hv d h wd h wy hy hv. y u fd wd uky h h y fu ju xd dd f md gd u Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 12

Dffu Fdh Pmmg Em 3 I B Fd, Khy x my dff m dug h fdh wh Lu. Bw m d h db v d m. Cu h d u d hv ud ( gu) mm h m wh h m gu wh m bg mmd. WORRIED Khy wd h Lu h fg bu h dug h umm v. SADNESS Summ m, d dd Lu Au d U. Thy k h mu f v. HAPPINESS Lu Khy h h uy hud bg bh f hm. JEALOUS Khy v d fm Lu d h h Lu mkg kd f w fd. WILD CARD! A u y m. EMBARRASSED Khy h hd hb hugh bu Lu dug h umm d wh h h hd b wg h mbd. LONELY Lu Au d U hv ju k Lu wy f h umm d Khy fg vy y. MAD Oy uy b d Lu g. Khy y md bu w h d g! EXCITEMENT Khy xd wh h Sh gg hv u d h g hv! O Ju R Sud d h y h ju y wy hy f. Th y f y u h ud bu yu my d ff m ugg g m ud d. Pb my ud: wg bu hw mhg m h hd hm g m hgg h dg dug wh hy kd dkd bu h y h g bv bu h u xg wh hy wud k hg bu h bk d why 3 Add fm Lgug A Av f Chd, 3d d., by D N. Pg 49, d. Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 13

Dffu Fdh Lu S: Th Tu F by M Bw Summy F fd Muffy F w d h Muffy F k h bm f hg. Muffy vuy z h mu f h qu f h d h g mk u. Suggd Av Dmm Cd -- R Pyg P Mkg Dy Ey Cg Rdd Dmm Cd If fdh gg b hhy d ufu, hd mu udd h bg gd fd m wh m b. Gd fd hud b h d uwhy. I Th Tu F, ud w bu h qu f mkg bd d d bg ufhfu fd. Chd f bm vy dy d f h d hy hv mk y. P mkg gd d by -yg dmm. Sm dmm d vdd g 40 ud bm dmm -y h hy hv fd h w v. Dy Ey Muffy h b dh d h h b ufdy. Hw mu h f kwg wh h h d h fd? W dy y, dg yu Muffy. W bu hw yu f, x why yu d, d x hw yu hk F fg bu wh yu hv d. P Mkg D h m wh fu h fu f hw b gd fd, hw d wh dffu fdh, hw mk u f fgh, hw mk w fd d fh. Cg Rdd Hv ud h w fdh dd. Gv h ud m y v m f h dd d by m. Exm: Wh d gd fd d w hv mm? Thy bh b d. Why dd h hd ugh wh h fd d h wud f h bm? H fd w! Wh d wm uk ud m h d gd fd hv mm? Thy bh ud-dg! Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 14

Dffu Fdh Add Lu Sugg: R & h Yw Rbb by Pu DP Wh h fv yw h bb g mg, R u h fd Lu f kg. R f h mk d mu gz h fd. Tm f Sh Nh! by Luu D Nh ju wh Nh g ff h d mk m w fd. R d Mh by Judh V Th y vvw f h u d dw f gd fdh. Th Wh by Lu Cf Zb d h fd V hv fgh bu h h wh h hud mk uky y. O V v h hm h u h wh w h fd bk. Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 15

Mxd-Sx Fdh Lu S: Jf J W Lv M A! by Fd Whky Summy Th hymg y bu yug by wh m bu Jf d h ff bhv wd hm. Sh d hm bu h fd hm h d h d k h. Sh mv wy f wh d h m h m h h hugh h v wud. Wh h h mvg hm h dd vy hw h y f. Suggd Av Wg d Pfmg Py Ghg D d Mh Pbm (P d C f Mxd Sx Fdh) Sh Suvy Db Wg d Pfmg Py Hv ud dfy h d f mxd-x fdh. W h h bd f ud f. Hv ud w m bu h d f mxd-x fdh b hd wh gu f ud (4-5). Th gu h dfy f h m h hy wud k fm ug Rd Th. Idu m f h dff wy h d fm Rd Th (f xm, h ud d z, ud j h z u dg, d g, d fh). T xd h vy, gv h ud mu um, d u fm h m. Sh Suvy A, uvy fm h f xmy 5-7 qu bu mxd-x fdh. A, dug gd uvy m wh h m h, hv ud dbu h uvy h ud. O h ud hv md h qu, h uvy d y h d. If yu hv mu, du hw mu ud y h d d hw wh y f hg mu d wh d (ghg, g, ). Ghg D d Mh Pbm Mk w gh h h u f h uvy qu. Du h gh wh h ud d h hv hm w m h d mh bm bd h d h w gh. O, hv h ud mk u h w qu h ud b wd ug h w gh. Sud m h qu d by. Numb f P Wh Awd Y 50 40 30 20 10 0 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Qu Numb Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 16

Mxd-Sx Fdh Db Dvd h w gu. Eh gu dfd, h GIRLS AND BOYS SHOULD NOT BE FRIENDS BOYS AND GIRLS SHOULD BE FRIENDS.' S u h f db. Gv h gu m m m u wh m u h. Ebh h u f h db. Hv h gu wh f wh d db g. Du h db. Whh gum w b? Why? Dd bh hv vd gum? Add Lu S Ev Ad Fd by Lu Cf Ev h hvg g f fd bd f. B Fd f F by Ru Hb F hw h m fd h h hv by y v d h h bf h m wh hvg fm fd. Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 17

I - C Cuu Fdh Lu S: Y! Y? by Ch Rhk Summy Y! Y? hfu y bu w by wh bm fd. Rhk u m wd d uu mk h y m v! A g d ud. Th gug b ud gbd du uu dff. Suggd Av Th Pw f Puu (Ch Rdg) Wg Agm Dm - Ag u! Bk Mkg Th Pw f Puu Af dg h bk wh yu ud d dug h y, -d, fug h uu d x. Hv yu ud h x yu d. Du h fu f h uu ud h f h ud udd mm h u d wh xm mk h xm. Exm yg wd wh dff uu mk dm h ud h uu mk dff h mg h vyd, v hugh g wd! (M? M! M.) A, gv h ud d wh uu mk d u hm y mhg ug h uu. Th h ud gu whh uu mk h ud xg. O h ud udd h uu ymb ud h bk, h hf. Hv gu d h hd wh h h gu d h h hd (h dg). Eug h ud y h wh muh x b. Wg Agm Hv ud bm m wd h hy u h w f fdh h w b m Y! Y?. If h h ud wh k dff gug, u h vy uy f h hd h h m fw wd f h v gu. If, ud w h Egh, wh h h ud d h Egh wd h h h v gug. Dm -- Ag Ou Hv h fm h f fdh f h, fug h x ud u f h h f uu. Bk Mkg Af h ud hv fmd h d md h hg hy f y, h fdh b u bk. Bkmkg mvg vy bu m hd vy g mk h wg k b. Th fhd bk b hd wh yug ud. Bf h ud d h u du h fu h, h, d xu hv hw f wh hy k y u (f xm, d, g d yw wm wh, bu d g Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 18

I - C Cuu Fdh ). Cd mkg bg bk f h dg f ud h wh yug gd. Bk Mkg Tk x h f wh. L h u d hd gh wh fdg x h hf. Sw g h ug fy g hg h d. Th mk h g f h bk. S d. Ly h fb (15 x11 ) d d dw h b. Ly w f 6 x9 dbd f h fb vg 1/2 bw h f dbd. Pk u d bd, y gu d d d bd bk wh w ug gud d fb. Hd fmy. Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 19

I - C Cuu Fdh Th fd u h dg f h h, k yu w h d f. Gu hm. Tk h w g d u gu h f v. P h f h w bk h 1/2 f bw h dbd. P h v, gu d dw h d bd. Th g hud v h ugh dg f h fb. D h m h bk v. C h bk d hvy m u bubb d k bk f wh dy. (Chk mk u gu h d h h g d g gud gh). v v u gu h Pu f w bk bw v wh gug f d bk h f f bk f d bk v. Th bk dy f ud w d dw hm. Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 20

I - C Cuu Fdh M Bk Mkg Id My Ad Sy Bk Th d y bk vy y mk. Tk f d fd ud (k bhu). Sud h gu u d x ( muh gu h g wk!!) A Ty Bk f Ty Hd 1. 2. fd hf 3. g fd hf u 4. Fd vy hf d u. Th fd hf h wy yu fdd 1. Cu dw mdd fd u h h h h fd. u h 5.O h h u d fd vy k d h f f 4. Puh h d wd h mdd d h h w u, k uhg u h. P h bk f. P! Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 21

I - C Cuu Fdh Lu S: M. Kz d Tuh by P P Summy L bg fdh wh M. Kz wh h k h k bdd k. A L d M. Kz k f h k gh h fdh gw g. Rd bu L uu hy d M. Kz Jwh hg d h m h w f hm d gh. Suggd Av Tm L Fdh Fdy A Sh Lg Abu Cuu FF Bk Tm L Fdh Ahugh P P gv d x d wh L d M. Kz f m, ud bu m f h v h fdh d bu hw L d M. Kz m. Evuy, d f M. Kz dh d L f g fdh wh h. I h vy ud w m fdh hy hv hv hd h. O h m ud w d v d h hv gf mg hm d h dvm f h fdh. Th fhd m hud k mhg k h: Tm f my fdh wh R. 1984 - M R fd bhdy y. 1986 -R mvd h m h h fm m. W yd vydy! 1987 - R mvd wy. W w h h f. Th h d wg. 1988 - R mvd bk! W w b fd g. W h umm gh h b h k. 1988 - A h d f h umm, R bk h m wh h f ff h dk. I vd h fm dwg. 1989 - R md m w fd. W fugh. W d kg bu w md u g. Nw h w fd my fd! 1990- R d I g fd. Sh mvd bu w wg d h m v mm. Fdy A Sh Rd kw h L d M. Kz gd fd bu hy d m y hg f h h. Hv ud -d h bk, hg f d dfyg f h h h v h h h hv fdy h. Sud my dfy y f h fwg fm h bk fdy : Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 22

I - C Cuu Fdh L d M. Kz by M. Kz bkd kug f L. hmf f h wd h k. L k h m d hd M. M. Kz g L dg wh h. Kz wh Tuh. L w wh M. Kz h my M. Kz vd L g h my. y kddh f My. L h M. Kz k f Tuh. Th ghb fud Tuh d ud h. L yd f Tuh u M. L d Pv wh M. Kz h Kz.. M. Kz hd kd w f L. L d h gv d k h mmy h h hughu h y. M. Kz f L h bk wh h d wy. Sud hud b b x why hy f h b fd fdy. Sm qu ud my w k hmv h fy h : 1. Hw d h mk h f? 2. Hw d h mk h h f? 3. Why d h h d? Lg Abu Cuu L d M. Kz m fm dff uu bkgud bu hugh h fdh hy bu hmv d h h uu bkgud. L g d bu M. Kz Jwh hg d h dv m hd bw h Af Am hg d h Jwh hg. Hv ud dfy m f h Jwh d h L bu fm M. Kz. Th, hv ud vw h m bu h h uu bkgud d fmy d. O h ud hv hd ugh m vw h, ud du h h f h by ummzg h fm h hy hv d hugh h vw. FF Bk Th Su Th Ch Th Pbm W & dw ud f Sud k h fm h y, dfy bm h h h h xd h y, d dfy h u h bm. Th, fd f 9 x 11 hf ghw d u fm d h mdd fd h qu zd f ud. C d b h f (Th Ch, Th Pbm d Th Su). Ud h f, ud dw w ( bh) h fm. Sud xhg h FF Bk d y fgu u wh h h by dg bu h bm u d fh. Sud h w b f h f ummz fm bu M. Kz Jwh uu. Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 23

I - C Cuu Fdh Add Lu Sugg Igg Hu by Judy Bum (v) A Bk fmy mv W ghbhd d W f hd bu m d f. Sh hw b gd fd. Th B by Yhk Uhd A J-Am g mmb h fd h hd v bhd wh h w fd v m m dug Wd W II. Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 24

Ig Fdh Lu S: Wfd Gd MDd Pdg by Mm Fx Summy Gd h h d fd, M Ny, wh h h h h h mmy. Suggd Av Mkg Mm -- Mg S Ivwg S--Wg Nw Sy Ju -- Fdh Mm I d H L Mkg Thk Yu N Mkg Mm If yu h hm, g f yu ud b d ff wh f mg. P h ud f h mg by dug wh y f bhv d ud w h hm mk fd wh h. Ivwg S 4 Hv ud d m g f vw qu (7-10) k h w fd d f bu h f. Du wh y f qu wud b k h vw. Du vw bhv d h m f g h vw. Hv ud vwg h fw m. Du hw f b h vw d hw f b h vw. Pfm h vw wh h z. Hv ud w w bu h fd ug h fm hy hv gd fm h vw. Cd mkg w f h w. Ju Fwg dg f Wfd Gd MDd Pdg du hw M Ny mu hv f wh h w g h mmy d hw Wfd g mm f h mgh hv md h f. Hv ud w ju y d Fdh Mm I Wud H L. A, ug ud d h vw d h x hy hd wh h fd. Mkg Thk Yu N Hv ud u hk yu d d f h z wh k h m m wh hm. Sud my w ud y f h w y hy w bu h bd h vw. 4 F dd fm vwg f Lgug A Av f Chd, 3d d., by D N. Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 25

Ig Fdh Add Lu Sugg M. Sv & M. Gd by D Fk Th h dv fdh h h. Th Gf by H Cu Wh A dy fd uddy g bd, A db wh h h dug h dy h h N M wh A h. Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 26

Fdh d Dff Lu S: My Fd Jb by Lu Cf Summy Sv-y-d Jb h dffu h h hd d hv bu gh-y-d Sm hk h h b fd h wd. Suggd Av Wbbg -- Qu W Lk F Ju E -- Ah P f Vw Fd Cmm Advm f Fd Oh T Wbbg O h fwg g wb m f h vy. Idvduy, ud m wb g h d h hy wb h u h k. O h ud hv fhd h wb, du hm bu h vy f qu d h h h ud k f fd. Sud hud dd h dvdu wb dug h du. Du wh y f hv h qu h w wbbd -- b f, d dff, k, wgh hv h db qu? If hd k bu fd h mu b b u d y, du h mdf h hy mk h y ud dbd fd. Cmm Advm f Fd Fwg h wbbg vy, ud w b w f my qu h fud gd fd. Shw hm xm f dff y f mm (d d TV) d h hv hm h w mm dvg f fd. Wh qu hy kg f? Th vy f hm mk df f gd fd. Sud h mm y f f h hy fm h mm f f h. Yu my w d mkg mk TV wh g dbd bx. Pu ud m gu f h vy. Eug h u f, mu d um f ud ff. If yu h h vd m, y u! Ju E -- Ah P f Vw Smm hd m h hd bu hy hv fd d h h hd f vw. Hv ud w hw hy wud f f hy w d ju bu hy w dff. A, ug hd w bu m wh hy mgh hv kd h hd bu h h w dff d why hy z hy w wg d. L h ud h h. Oh T Fwg h dg f h u, hv ud mk u w f h y. Sud hud h h d why hy hk h h w f h y. Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 27

Fdh d Dff Add Lu Sugg A Vy S Fd by Dhy Hffm Lv A g hg f fd d wh h m df g h bu h f d h. A d h Nw Kd by Ny C Ph m h whh d A hm my. Wh A bk h g d mu u uh, Ph h hm muv ud h h. A dv h Ph f fu y wh v f h u d y bb. Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 28

Fdh d Dff Qu d Ch f Gd Fd -- Wbbg Avy Qu gd fd h Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 29

Imgy Fd Lu S: J by Kv Hk Summy Ruh gv u mgy m md J wh h fd fd md J h kdg. Suggd Av Mkg Imgy Fd Dg S Idvdu Sy Th R-Tg h Sy Mkg Imgy Fd O hv ud h f f mgy fd ug u, bd, bu, d vu h d f u h hd. C b y b ud dd h. Sud gu P k h bk f h fm hd h h f b ud u. Idvdu Sy Th Rd J g d hv h ud u h v f h y yu d. Bu m f h y bd y h, hd d b kg mgy fd ju Ruh d. L hf f h kd dw d wh h f h ud fm d h h gu wh. Aw ud h fm d bv. Du h bdy mvm d h ud ud h hw wh w gg h y w d ud. Dg S If h ud ub w, hv hm d yu bu dvu hy wud k hv ( hv hd) wh mgy fd. Th vy b d m gu f h h du d ud h d h d. Rd h d bk h ud d hv hm dfy, wd ud h h mk u h d. Eug hd j yu d d -d h d. Sud dw u mm h d. R-Tg h Sy Rd d du h y. Hv h ud - h y f J d d. Eug ud u um, ud ff d v f h -g. Md -g f h bk ud hv xm fw. Cd g yug ud u wh ud fm d gd mk h gm m g. A, h yug ud my d m h fm d ud du wh h d d ud ff. Hv hd wk m gu. Py h dd g f jy! Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 30

L f Fd Lu S: My A by By Jm (Mvg Awy) Summy My A Amy b fd. Af My A mv wy Amy fd yg m d m f My A h h. Th bm Amy w fd u h m d f h y h gg. Amy d h fmy u hm fm v h My A hu dv h f h gg hv hhd d Amy h hudd f w fd. Amy w v b y g! Suggd Av Pd Rg Sy P Ex Hu f Syb Lk f Cu I m... R-g fm h f vw Pd H ud dv d, mh d d mkg k. S by my dg h f h bk. Ak ud mk d gu bu wh h y mgh b bu. Rd h d h bd. Nx, d m f h x, g dmd. Wh vy h d h g, hv hm mk h d. Wh w h h() d? Wh h h() d h? Rd h d d d ff y f h f d h g b. Mk u h du why h d g b. Ak h ud wh f h u h d hm u h h y mgh u u u wy. Fh dg h y d du h qu f d. W y y? If, h ud h wh hg h y hd hm mk ffv d. Rg Sy P Ex Rd My A. Ak ud hk f y d m v h w v d du hm wh h. Hv hy v hd fd mv wy? Hw dd hy f? Why? Wh dd hy d mk hmv f b? Dd hy v h fd wh mvd wy g? Hv ud u h hugh by hvg hm w dw wy h hy d h y h() m. Hu f Syb 5 hy d 4 quum 3 2 1 vyg gg Dw hu d dvd h hu u f. Th umb f f qud dd h wd h x (hw my yb hy hv) d h ud by dfy wd yb. Numb h f g wh. Th f umb gf hw my yb wd mu bf b w dw h f. Eug ud fd wd fm h x f My A h b d h Hu f Syb. A, ug ud dd h w wd h my db u h y hw Amy my hv f gv m. Add dd f h yb hu hg ud. 5 Tk fm Lg Mgz Subk f h. Pg 115. Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 31

L f Fd I m... R-g fm h f vw Hv h ud h f h h fm h y: My A (h g h m), Amy, h f Amy. Sud - h y f My A fm h h f vw, ddg h w d h h -g f h y. Th ud mu y h -g d dd whh h h ud g. A, h ud mu dfy y d h h - h ddd h y mk dff h h bk. Du h dff f vw d h dff m h h h f hughu h y (.. Hw dd Amy mh f wh h dvd h gg hd hhd? Hw dd Amy f wh h dvd h gg hd hhd? Why mgh h w h f dffy bu h m v? Hw dd Amy f wh My A mvd? Hw mgh hv My A f?) Lk f Cu Amy m hm fd h h hd b f ff h quum fu f gg d h hu fu f. W d y kw f u wh f h ff h quum m f ud h h x d u f u. Sud vd fm h x d h u v wh guy. Oh Lu Sugg Th fwg u d wh h u f g fd m u m h h my u. S f F, S f H by J Hd N-y-d H h Jwh fd Lyd wh h Nz k h. Th hg H d Lyd w Yu my fd ym! My y H hg h Lyd uvvd h w d h h kw hw muh H vd h. Th B by Yhk Uhd A J-Am g mmb h fd h hd v bhd wh h hd g v m m dug Wd W II. I hd fd md P: Tkg hd bu h dh f fd by J Ch Th y bu hd h h fd, P. Th y uh hw h fd w m f h qu bu dh. Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 32

Wg U... Fdh Fv I m y m gm! Hv h ud h h w wh ju gud fm yu. Th m f ud h wh hy hv d wh h. Myb f yug hd wud k u hw, fdh d, y fdh gm, h h ud -. I u hm (d yu). C Cm Nw Mgz Th u mg d yu w u wy h w k h ud vvd. Tk h h hv h ud w d hm h h wh h ud hv d. O, m mgz h ud f d -f bu fd, D Fd d F Fd um fug m f h b dv gv dug h dy bm g, m, qu fm vw, dvm f gd fdh bk, h bk vw, uzz, dd d jk, d fdh d h hy hv d, fdg f h mxd-x uvy, mh gh, d fd () d. Eug h hd h h f wk h hy w bu hv hm wk gu. Phy wk, hkg wh y f h g hv ud d bk d wh wk m f dbd h b d f y hyg. S b yd by yu h ud h mu, d y d h d. Mk y f h mgz f h ud. Thy w b hd! Py Evy v y! P gm d v f h ud d ug h j yu. Rv fd d f h S Fd mg gm w ud. Pfm f P d Fd If ud hv d m f h Rd Th, Sy Th, u hw, mm v, w h m hm h f f h d fd. Cd vg h z fm h hm! Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 33

Wg U... A Exhb Wh f h h h b d dug h u, wud b hm f b dyd f. S h m u k gy d v d h m d vw h wk. Hv h ud dy h h fv d w bf d f h d hy g hugh h gy. Ag h ud v h hy f hm h gy. S Bk Sud mk bk h vy f mg, wd, d h h fdh hm. Th b d hughu h u ummzg vy. Fdh Qu Eh ud mk h f fdh qu. Ug vu d u ud h fd, fdy bhv, mmy v h h hd wh fd. O f h ud hv md h dvdu h, h h w g h d dyd. Cd dug ymbm h hd h h (f xm, d m v d f m). Th h b md f f qu (8 x8 g, ddg vb f dy, umb f hd, ). Th h b y w bd h. Eug ud du h h wh h. Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 34

Avy Sh f y h v g v g w f w z y d d x f d u k m d y d v g h w h u m f m y h k v w d w f w k h b y v d u q k m k w y u d u m y g k v u d d g w g v y g w d f u j u k WORD SEARCH fdh uddg u k h h f g fdy u h ddb mm wdfu gvg

Avy Sh Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 36 u h f u h wdfu gvg f y h v g v g w f w z y d d x g d u k m d y d v v y h h u m v f y h k v y w d w f y w k v b y v d u y k m v y u d u m y g k v u d d g w g v y g w d f u j u k WORD SEARCH fdh uddg k h g fdy ddb mm

Avy Sh Wd Smb Th wd h bx hv b mbd bw. uddg hfu gvg g h u fdy wdfu Cv w bf yg. 1. 2. huf hfu 3. dugd uddg 4. g g 5. dwuf wdfu 6. vgg gvg 7. h h 8. 9. u u 10. dfy fdy Mk ug h umbd wd fm bv. Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 37

Avy Sh Lv d Fdh Yu uudd by fd d fmy wh bu yu. Ld bw m f h h yu my hk f fd. Bd h m, w g hw yu wud hw h h yu v d hm h. A bh A m A A fd Wh d fdh m yu? Cygh 1996 Jf Bh 38

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C Cd - Dmm Cd Dmm Cd Yu h yu b fd kg mhg fm k. Wh w yu d? Wh, u h dmm d y m u wh u. Dmm Cd Yu h h yu fd yg bd hg bu yu bhd yu bk. G d u h dmm. Wh w yu y? Hw w yu fd d? W yu b fd? Dmm Cd Yu m h hd kg hd h ygud. Th hd y. I gu, u h dmm d m u wh u h mk vy hy. 42

C Cd - Dmm Cd Dmm Cd Yu fd dg yu mk. Thy whg yu. Wh w yu d? Wh w hy y? A u h dmm d wh h! Dmm Cd Yu w v w ud yu Bhdy Py. Yu h fd d kw h w ud d hy yu h f h w ud vd, f hm w m yu y. A u h dmm d f yu wk hg u! Dmm Cd Yu b fd g md yu whv yu y wh h hd. H h d v m w y wh y x yu d h ug bm. Hw w yu yu b fd h m f h w f yu y wh h kd? 43

C Cd - Dmm Cd Cygh 1996 Jf Bh. Th m h my du f m h bk f m u y. Th du f y f h h ym y hbd. N f h ub my b md, d, dd y fm whu w m fm h uh. 44