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A.L. Struik Clinical Psychologist/Family Therapist } Book } Six tests form } Not a protocol } Age differences } www.amazon.com } www.ariannestruik.com } Chronically traumatized } PTSD, FASD, RAD, ODD, ADHD, depression, self harm and suicidal } Alcohol and drugs } Aggressive } Crossing sexual boundaries-offending } Bullying 1

} Emotion regulation is not sufficient } Child is not stable } Treatment on behaviour } Skills training } Protective behaviours } Child and Adolescent Mental Health } Medication } Don t wake up sleeping dogs http://guidelines.acpmh.unimelb.edu.au/ PTSD practise parameters AACAP (2010) 1) Focus on traumatic memories (CBT or EMDR) 2) When resistant, keep going Process trauma, not only work on symptoms Phased treatment Stabilization phase Trauma processing phase EMDR or CBT Integration phase Stabilization is difficult 2

} I can t talk about it } I don t want to talk about it } I forgot everything } I m over it } It didn t happen } We don t dare to ask } Child is constantly alert } No trust } No attachment } Lonely } No self soothing capacity } Chronic stress } Motivation and psychoeducation } Stabilization with six tests: Safety Daily life Attachment Emotion regulation Cognitive shift Nutshell } Trauma processing with EMDR } Integration 3

} Connecting problems tot trauma } Psycho-education brain, trauma reactions and attachment } Child is in charge WINDOW OF TOLERANCE 4

} Physical safety (SOS, Turnell & Edwards) } Basic needs: bed, bath and bread } Emotional support } Permission for therapy } No new problems every day } Ready for temporary worsening } Stable placement } Safe Deposit Box } Safe place } Here and Now } Triggers/ window } Medication } Calm brain attachment figure Psycho-education Parental support } Contact biological parents } Perspective } Attachmentsystem activated. } Child uses adult to regulate 5

} Can child tolerate emotions during TP? } Bodily sensations } Feelings Happy, Sad, Afraid and Angry } Dissociation Experience and tolerate bodily feelings Experience and tolerate normal feelings without dissociating } Children blame themselves } Don t blame the hand that feeds you } Cognitive shift } Perpetrator takes responsibility } Victim-parent often also perpetrator } Other hand to feed } It can happen again } I am out of control Anger/ fear } It is my fault/ I should have Role reversal } I am stupid/ a bad child/ I hate myself Depression/ anger 6

} I am safe now, it stopped } I am in control now } It is not my fault, mom/dad should not have done that/ taken care of me } I am a normal/ok person, despite what happened or what I have done } Prepare the child to make cognitive shift } Provide the child with information } Brief story with pictures (8 pages) } Possible traumatising events } Parents views and intentions } Presented to the child } With parents/ carers/ network.-.- --.,., 4 r--~-...-...,-.).: ~."", 9t.," 7

When Cynthia was five, dad and mum were still fighting a lot. Dad says he decided to leave because he thought the fighting was not good for Cynthia and it could not be fixed. Mum says that is true. At that time dad was very young and he felt he could not take care of Cynthia well enough, so he left her with mum. In hindsight, dad says he should not have done that. Dad says he did not realise how ill mum was and how difficult that was for Cynthia. Dad says he always thought about Cynthia and wondered how she was doing, but he was scared to contact her because he felt he was wrong. He was very happy to hear from her now....,,... e I "." Mum says she has a lot of bad memories from when she was a child. She tries not to think about them by using drugs. Mum says the memories make her feel depressed and bad about herself, so bad she tried to kill herself. She felt so bad that she could not think about Cynthia at all. Mum says Cynthia tried to make her happy, but it is not children s job to make mum s happy, they cannot. Mum s and dad s have to make themselves happy or ask other adults to help them, not children. Now mum says she is happy she did not die, because she wants to be there for Cynthia. She has done therapy and does not think about killing herself anymore. She still uses drugs because it is very hard to stop that. Your body just wants to have more and more. Mum says that she wants to try to stop drugs too and then Cynthia can come and live with her. 8

} Overview of memories } Child stays within window of tolerance } Clustering 9

} EMDR } 0-18 years } 0-4 years with attachment figure } Complex trauma <12 years, 3-5 sessions } Complex trauma >12 years, 5-8 sessions } EMDR practitioner } Family therapy } Reunification } Meeting the perpetrator } Skills training } Making life story-movie or photo book } Going back to former houses/ families 10

} www.ariannestruik.com } ariannestruik@hotmail.com } Sleeping Dogs training 18 October 2017 Auckland } EMDR Child Training 19-20 October2017 Auckland } FIFO treatment clinics 11